Why Lingerie?
When
speaking about lingerie it is surprising to see how many women do not
see the importance of it. Many ask, “What is the point?”, “Why should I
waste my money?”, “Why is it even worth my time talking about it?”
- Why Lingerie
I
think a lot of this negativity toward lingerie stems from what the
media has taught us; that in order to wear it, we must look perfect in
it. The lingerie models of the world are petite and everything is in
place. The reality isthough, the average female is curvy with more
‘meat’ for our men to hold on to. Those commercials are missing the big
picture. It is not entirely about how you look in the lingerie, it is
more importantly about how it makes you feel when you put it on.
Lingerie allows us a way to express our sensual sides no matter where we
are. It’s the little secret we have between us and what’s underneath,
that little secret that makes us walk with more confidence and smile a
little wider.
Here are 4 reasons why we should wear lingerie…
First reason, it’s sexy. Second reason, it’s sexy. Third reason, it’s sexy!! Ok ok, on a more serious note…
1. TO FEEL SEXY
: You do not have to look like those lingerie models to feel sexy.
Being sexy is a state of mind. It is all in the way you present
yourself. There are so many materials and colors to choose from. Find
your style and make it you! Once you feel sexy, others will see you as
sexy also.
- FEEL SEXY
2. TO SPARK THOSE FLAMES AGAIN : We
all get comfortable in our relationships to the point where we just do
not feel that there is need to impress each other anymore. Let’s change
this ladies. Every now and then surprise him. Put on some lingerie, and
just walk around the house doing your normal routine and watch him start
lusting like a teenager all over again.
- FEEL GREAT
3. TO DO DAMAGE CONTROL : Ok
so last month your hubby told you that you need to slow down on your
shoe fetish. Not only are you running out of space in the closet, but
you guys need to save to remodel the kitchen. You decided to go window
shopping with your girlfriends and see these shoes that you just could
not leave behind. As you are driving home you are pondering how to get
away with your new purchase. It’s simple. Model the shoes for him. Pair
them up with something lacy and sexy. I am sure he will not pay much
attention to the shoes.
4. TO FEEL GREAT EVEN DURING THOSE ‘NOT SO GREAT’ DAYS : Lingerie
is not only for HIM. It is also for you. The beauty about lingerie is
that they can be hidden but they bring out so much on the surface, yet
no one knows why. Nobody knows there are silk panties hiding under
boardroom suit. Only you know you have them on. Yet when you walk, your
hips twist, when you talk you have a bossy tone, and people just seem to
be drawn to you. You are beautiful and sexy. Take some time out to
celebrate you.